When someone passes it's always hard to know exactly what to say ....no words can adequately convey how sorry and sad you are and feel for your friends, years ago I discovered this short verse written by the playwright Terence Rattigan which I think conveys some of what I'm trying to say to you. :- ' I will not insult you by trying to tell you that one day you will forget, I know that you will not. But at least in time you will not remember as fiercely as you do now, and I pray that time may be soon'. Love Marina xx